I knew Bruce Stovel a little because his radio show, CJSR FM88's popular and long-running Calling All Blues , followed mine on CJSR on Wednesday nights. He was a kind and gentle man, thoughtful and respectful, and passionate about blues music, CJSR, and fro m what I could see, his son and co-host, Grant. In the most recent (and obviously the final) conversation I had with Bruce, I asked him, since he was my elder, if he had any advice for me because I'd just become a father. He told me that having kids is the biggest thing there is. Sometimes it's the biggest anxiety and fear, but mostly it's the biggest love. The fact that he and Grant worked for so many years together on the same show (a relationship that I imagine is rare, if perhaps unique, in Canadian radio), speaks to how close the two of them obviously were (and are). I hope that my relationship with my daughter, and my children yet to be born, will be as close as was Bruce's and Grant's. Grant Stovel wr...